2013年3月19日 星期二

how smart phones impact your relationship?



 
  Take a picture of couples who are dating, and compare the same picture taken a year ago. The most distinguished difference is their focus. Just a year ago, couples’ attention concentrated on their half one; now, they may be distracted by smart phones. For valentines nowadays, smart phone is a new member in their relationship.

  Due to innovation of 3C productions, the way people interact with each other has been changed. It makes us connect to the world constantly so that friends can easily build up a strong bond by letting others knows everything in their life. It indirectly accelerates couples’ being together. But what happened next?
  After they get together, they have a date. One or both of them keeps checking whether he or she gets a new message. It is annoying or even provoking that your boyfriend or girlfriend keeps chatting with other people via apps when you’re talking to him or her. That is the reason I picked this issue. One of my best friend encountered this situation and they had have quarrel over this problem for about a month.
  It roots from distinct concept of people. Part of people doesn’t mind of using smart phones when they have a dating or meeting, but the rest think contrary. There are lots of reports and news about this problem. Though technological innovation makes us easily access to connect each other anytime and anywhere, it can do negative influences to close relationships, especially to one you can see everyday.
  In sum, while smart phone is a media to couples, it can hurt the relationships too. Knowing how to moderate the time of it is the only solution to the problem.

18 則留言:

  1. I think it is a good decision to discuss the impact of the smart phones. Nowadays almost everyone has a smart phone in hand. And she plays a small show in her presentation, it is quite a good performance.

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  2. Nowadays, 3C products is very convenient. They can shorten the distant in space, however, they also can drift apart the distant of the heart. It's worthy thinking about our relationship with smart phone and people.

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  4. It is really a big problem in our lives. And as far as I am concerned, that is totally rude and kind of pathetic when your lover, friends or family just sit in front of you,everyone just use his or her own smart phone instead of chatting with each other. People live so we can love and care who are around us. And, it is absolutely not through these inhuman devices that we connect people.

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  5. I think your issue is very closely related to us, because nowadays everyone have a smart phone.

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  6. I have wanted to discuss this question for a long time.
    Every time we come out with friends we've never seen each other, we still slide our smartphone during the get-together.
    How come? If we can't spare a few hours to talk with others face to face, why are we come out to meet?

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  7. smart phone give us a brand new life,while it is not equal to mean we get better life. everything comes a price and new problem. you remind me of rethinking about this problem!!

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  8. This is a good issue:) A lot of people slide their smart phone every time,everywhere, it's not a good thing:(

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  9. I don't use smart phone. Maybe it is a wise choice to do so.

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  10. For friendship, smart phones are quite ambiguous. In some degree, it connects person from person without intervention from distance. On the other hand, however, it sometimes confines our world to 5'inchs screen.

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  11. I hate someone using smartphone when we get together. And one of my relatives said something interesting," We punished someone if he or she dare to use smartphone when we are talking and eating." I think that is a little bit over, but really reflect something. Your article say a real thing I have experienced in my life.

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  12. A true relation between the person in front of you is much important than the phone we hold in hands.

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  13. An interesting and attractive issue you chose especially when everybody now use smart phones!

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  14. Most of my friends use smartphone when we get together. I think though smartphone is convenient, it bring the negative influence that it let people waste a lot of time and lose their concentration on their work.

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  15. We should take the smart phones side when we are dating or having a dinner. It's a manner to let the friends and your lover feel that you take him serious. :D

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  16. Smart phones=Convenient
    Smart phones=Lack of face to face interaction
    What can we do?

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  17. lots of friends of me have smart phones.
    when we take a seat and eat, they often take out their phones just like they don't know each other.

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  18. It made me feel mumchance that in nowadays what disconnects couples was not having an inapporiate behavior but smart phone= =

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