Take a picture of couples who are dating, and
compare the same picture taken a year ago. The most distinguished difference is
their focus. Just a year ago, couples’ attention concentrated on their half
one; now, they may be distracted by smart phones. For valentines nowadays, smart
phone is a new member in their relationship.
Due to innovation of 3C
productions, the way people interact with each other has been changed. It makes
us connect to the world constantly so that friends can easily build up a strong
bond by letting others knows everything in their life. It indirectly accelerates
couples’ being together. But what happened next?
After they get together, they have a date. One or both of them keeps
checking whether he or she gets a new message. It is annoying or even provoking
that your boyfriend or girlfriend keeps chatting with other people via apps
when you’re talking to him or her. That is the reason I picked this issue. One
of my best friend encountered this situation and they had have quarrel over
this problem for about a month.
It roots from distinct concept of people. Part
of people doesn’t mind of using smart phones when they have a dating or
meeting, but the rest think contrary. There are lots of reports and news about
this problem. Though technological innovation makes us easily access to connect
each other anytime and anywhere, it can do negative influences to close
relationships, especially to one you can see everyday.
In sum, while smart phone is a media to couples, it can hurt the
relationships too. Knowing how to moderate the time of it is the only solution
to the problem.
extra news link:CNN-your smartphone may be powering down your relationship.
